Sit In Your Power

Recently, I sat at a table of women and talked about everything that lights me up inside.

I spoke effortlessly, with complete confidence and the unshakable belief that I belong.

No imposter syndrome, insecurity, or doubt; this was and is my element.

This moment was a feeling I’ve often experienced when I do the work that sets my soul on fire, but somehow, this time was different.

There was an energy shift, a sense of ownership in all the wisdom life and experience gave me.

I could see myself sitting there, and it was as if I observed my power from a new vantage point.

At this moment, I had clarity about my purpose.

I realized I have too often let fear stop me from claiming my spot at the table.

Sometimes, we are scared to sit in our power and honestly calm it.

Fear we will be found out

Fear we will be mocked

Fear we will succeed

Fear of our value and self-worth.

The people around us tell us these stories about who we are and what we bring that’s of value. For years and decades, we have believed in the stories and versions of ourselves, and we have molded ourselves to fit inside boxes that others constructed on our behalf.

For many women, these stories of belonging revolve around our sexuality and our bodies or our ability to mother those interested in our care. Our value comes down to our maternal side and who we nurture beyond ourselves.

Yet, to sit there on my own, genuinely knowing my worth, not needing any outside validation or acceptance beyond my own, is a feeling I hope every woman gets to experience.

There is beauty in seeing your power and leaning into your worth without the need for the applause of another.

When you experience that shift, you can begin to break the boxes and define your path forward, unapologetically and for yourself.

Don’t ask permission.

Don’t shy away from your superpowers

Don’t allow your self-talk to steal your self-worth.

You are worthy, and you are powerful.

Dare to own it.

Michelle